Jealousy is bitchy bitchy bitch!

by BigMamaCass on April 14, 2011

in Dude!! Why??,Life, Life, Life,Love,Ranting,Stuff that chaps my ass!,Writers Workshop

Mama’s Losin’ It

 

What I lack…

Patience!!

 

You have all heard me talk about Erica like a gobzillion times.

Now, this is not going to be a blog of me listing the 123908571290578125 things I love about her or why she is so absolutely fucking perfect!

It just so happens that I will be picking her up from the airport this afternoon so that she can share my birthday with me!!  WOOHOOO!

The thing that is frustrating me so much is that whenever she comes into town, or we prepare for a visit, I start to get high levels of anxiety.  Not about seeing her or about what we are going to do or any of that. I get anxiety because of the comments, emails and remarks that I am going to have to combat.

“Why don’t you ever come visit me instead?”

“Why do you spend all your time talking to her now instead of me?”

“Why does she have to come visit you so much?”

“Didn’t she JUST come there for a visit?”

“Why don’t you get as excited to see me when I come to visit?”

And the list goes on and on and on and on.

I have absolutely no patience for this crap anymore!

Number one, none of it is true.  Having her in my life does NOT affect any of my other relationships.  And the jealousy is beyond fucking annoying!

Why can’t people be happy for me having a good friend??  WTF is wrong with people that they get so wrapped up in their stupid jealousy, that they let it affect our friendship/relationship?!?

Yes, this is a blog I probably shouldn’t have written because I know I am going to piss off a lot of people, but I have NO patience for it anymore!

So if you are going to come to me with some petty comment about your issues, DON’T!  Because I no longer have the patience to be nice about it.

Kapeesh!?!

 

 

 

{ 29 comments… read them below or add one }

Ms. Salti
Twitter ID: mssalti
April 14, 2011 at 12:32 pm

I concur…that is all.
Ms. Salti´s last blog post ..Leavin On a Jet Plane

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:04 pm

Well said.

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Angel
Twitter ID: singdwingangel
April 14, 2011 at 12:34 pm

OH girl get out of my life… I mean seriously.. that sounds like my family and friends. My mom tells me to get a life and do things then when I do things I hear You are never home anymore, you never have time for me anymore. I mean I love my mom but we have more issues then Ladie’s home journal.
Angel´s last blog post ..PYHO- Mom gets conned and its still MY fault according to her

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:05 pm

LOL!!! I hear ya!

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Courtney April 14, 2011 at 12:48 pm

Ahhh, jealousy, ain’t it grand (I mean seriously, are we still in high school??) I say just ignore it and have a fabulous time with your friend!

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:05 pm

Thanks!! I did! It was wonderful!! :)

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Mishelle
Twitter ID: mishelle42
April 14, 2011 at 12:57 pm

Wow… I can’t believe people would say that! I mean is it impossible to have more than 1 friend?!? For some people it is impossible to be happy for others.

I like listening to you babble about how much you like her visits as you sound so happy.

M

ps – if you two need bail…

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:05 pm

Awww!! Can’t wait till you join us woman!!

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kyooty
Twitter ID: kyooty
April 14, 2011 at 1:26 pm

WTF? Im so very lost.
kyooty´s last blog post ..Theres walking and then theres Walking!

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:06 pm

LOL Never mind. :)

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Nikki April 14, 2011 at 1:40 pm

Tell those people to SUCK IT!!!! I think there are certain people out there who are that unhappy with themselves that they don’t want others in their life to have any happiness either! You know where you genuine relationships lie so hold on to those and screw the rest of them! And don’t feel bad about stating how you feel. This is YOUR place to write what you want! So more power to ya!!!
Nikki´s last blog post ..Wordless Wednesdayssort of!!!!

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:06 pm

Thanks Nikki!!!!!!!

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Raven April 14, 2011 at 2:11 pm

All I can say is WTFever. The jealousy needs to go!!
Raven´s last blog post ..Not Much of a Title- Is It

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:06 pm

Sursly!

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staciesmadness April 14, 2011 at 2:16 pm

Jealousy is an ugly ugly disease.
staciesmadness´s last blog post ..Total Geek outin a Band Geek kinda way

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:07 pm

Yes it is nasty. {shudder}

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Vegetable Assassin April 14, 2011 at 2:20 pm

Holy shit, Cass. HOW DARE YOU have more than one friend. It’s illegal you know. I am so reporting you for being a giant friendly whore. :)
Vegetable Assassin´s last blog post ..Green Mountains- Muffs and Squeezing Cows

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Lady Old Soul April 14, 2011 at 11:51 pm

LMAO!!! xD I gotta say, ‘…giant friendly whore’ might just be the most perfect phrase I’ve seen all day long!! KUDOS!

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:07 pm

LMFAO!!

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Nolie
Twitter ID: NoliesPlace
April 14, 2011 at 2:41 pm

“Why don’t you ever come visit me instead?”

“Why do you spend all your time talking to her now instead of me?”

“Why does she have to come visit you so much?”

“Didn’t she JUST come there for a visit?”

“Why don’t you get as excited to see me when I come to visit?”

That is all. Carry On! LMAO Love ya girl. Screw those with jealousy. Enjoy your time and enjoy your wicked ass friendship.
Nolie´s last blog post ..Stomach Bug and Pregnancy

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:07 pm

Thanks :) We had a great time!

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Toni April 14, 2011 at 3:46 pm

Abso-fucking-lutely!!! I could write these same words. Screw the haters.

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:08 pm

Well said!!!

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Noelle April 14, 2011 at 5:21 pm

Very true! I hope you two (plus the others ) have a wonderful time in Estes! Your birthday is just that, your day! Embrace, love, and eff all the others! Love you Cass!

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:08 pm

Thanks doll

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Lady Old Soul April 14, 2011 at 11:52 pm

People just need a reality check. And I think the realization that others don’t consider them their ENTIRE universe is just the ticket! LOL Way to stick it to those silly haters, and you have a great bunch of gabby fun with your friend for your birthday!!! (Just don’t do anything I would do…it leads to trouble. LOL!!)
Lady Old Soul´s last blog post ..TST – The Only I Could Do This Edition

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:08 pm

HAHAHA Lame! Take away ALL my fun!?? LOL!!!

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Auri
Twitter ID: mistressauri
April 15, 2011 at 5:33 am

Hi lover,
I understand what you’re saying on so many levels I can’t even list them here. When I was in Cali I got it constantly… that whole list you just wrote out. Not to mention the “Isn’t High School over?” or “Adult women don’t need best friends” and on and on and on.
It feels good to vent. Get it out. Just remember… in the end, all that matters is your relationship with those you love. Not what others think about it. k. Love you.

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BigMamaCass April 19, 2011 at 4:09 pm

Aww thanks babe! LOVE YOU!! XOXOX

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